Below is a selection a frequent inquiries I get regarding in person meetings. This information is also a guide to a smooth booking process with me.
Once you have read this, feel free to proceed to my contact form to spend some time with me.
Send all other questions to firstname.lastname@example.org
Where do you see clients?
My home base is California – I have private Incall spaces in Oakland and San Francisco. Everywhere else is currently Outcall, or Incall in private spaces. I love traveling, touring and am also available to be flown out to see you.
How do I book you for FMTY?
Fly Me To You is a luxurious experience; the minimum tribute for FMTY is Day with Mistress. You pay airfare, an advance deposit, and tribute upon my arrival to you. We can spend this time together however you like – touring the city, sightseeing, or privately!
Screening is more extensive for this experience. Please request a session for FMTY information.
Who do you enjoy spending time with?
I enjoy playing with smart, honest, communicative, polite, safe, sane, creative, and curious adults. Your level of experience does not play a part in whether or not I will see you – although it does play a role in how I will navigate our time together. I do not discriminate against any race, gender identity, sexual orientation, or any identity that is personal to you. I am a very open minded, sex positive, queer individual. I am discreet and respectful, and I expect the same from you.
Who do you not want to see?
I do not want to see people who are jerks, pigs, or boundary pushers, and I detest people who lie or overindulge. Please tell me your fears, hard lines, weaknesses, strengths, secrets – anything that will make you feel more comfortable during our time together.
What do you offer in a session?
You can find details of what I offer by visiting my repertoire page.
What don’t you do in sessions?
These are my hard limits – do not question them or request them during our session or any time preceding:
Ruby play, needle play, race play, rope bondage, BBFS, CIP, and Greek.
What is your tribute per session?
You can find that information on my sessions page. Tribute varies depending on what kind of experience you are looking for.
How do I book a session with you?
The first step to booking with me is to read my FAQ – which, as of now, you have almost completed. The second step is to fill out my contact form. This form includes information related to how you would like our time to be spent together, as well as screening information.
Screening –I am very discreet and will NEVER disclose any of the information you share with me prior to or during our session with anyone – regardless if I book with you or not. Screening is NON-NEGOTIABLE – if you try to bypass this process, you will simply never receive a reply from me.
FMTY Screening ALWAYS requires that your Photo ID be provided to me before flying anywhere.
There are a few ways which I can screen you…
The first option is to provide a minimum of 2 references from currently active providers you have seen in the past 2 years. In the contact form, please provide the following:
- The provider’s name
- The name, email and/or phone number you use to book with the provider
- Their email, or phone number – Please ASK the provider which of these contact methods they prefer
- A link to their website, a verified ad (PrivateDelights, Slixa, Tryst, etc), or a link to their social media.
I will NOT go out of my way to search for your references – it is your job to provide to me a way to contact them, verify them, and confirm with them that it is appropriate to use them as a reference.
You can also give provider references by sending me a screening request through your PrivateDelights account. If you have reviewed at least 2 verified providers on PD, and they have responded to your reviews, I accept that as a valid reference!
If you have been out of the lifestyle for a while or have not seen a provider before, please continue on to these methods:
• In the box on the booking request form marked Provider References, please include either a link to your public LinkedIn, a public social media profile, and/or a link to a professional business website where your name and contact information are shown.
• A second way to screen with me is by sending a photograph of your driver’s license, passport, or ID card with your personal information covered or blurred out (you must leave your photo and name exposed, everything else can be hidden) OR a work ID with your picture/a photo of your business card OR an email sent to me (to a separate non risque sounding email address of mine) from your business email.
• If you do not have a LinkedIn, public social media, or a business website, there is one final method of screening I accept. Please write a professional and polite message explaining that while you do not have any of the aforementioned screening information available, you can offer other methods in which you can prove to that you are not a jerk or dangerous person to be around.
Deposit – I require a non-refundable $50 per first time booking deposit paid in advance. This fee is subtracted from my hourly tribute, and you pay the remainder when you arrive for your session. It is non-refundable, so if you flake or cancel last minute for any reason – you will lose the entire deposit amount. If you do or say something that causes me to feel I need to cancel or end the session prematurely due to my safety or security – you will lose your deposit and any tribute paid to me at that point in time.
Deposits can be paid by any of these methods: PayPal, CirclePay, Ca$happ, or Amazon gift card. I will provide the information for the pay method you choose. If you send it electronically do NOT include a risque or flirtatious note as the reason for sending – put something discreet such as “for the utilities” or “happy anniversary”.
If you inform me that you need to reschedule within 24 hours of our session – I will allow the deposit to be applied to the next session you book with me.
Other general protocol for seeing Me:
No cologne, or scents please. I am sensitive to these, and will require you to shower if you wear something that bothers me. The shower time will come out of your session.
Show up clean – hygiene is super important to me. If you arrive sweaty, dirty, or having any foul smell to your body – I will require you to shower beforehand, and that time will come out of your session.
If you would like to participate in any prostate stimulation or anal play that requires more than just a finger or two – use an enema – these are available at your local drugstore and are very affordable. I can and will also gladly assist in this as part of your time with me, if you prefer.
Show up on time – never early, or late. If you are late, your session time will be adjusted accordingly. The tribute amount will stay the same.
Do not show up intoxicated to the point that you are not of sound mind to consent. If I feel you are too intoxicated to play safely, will dismiss you without a refund. Keep this in mind.
You may bring beer or wine for you to consume during our session – do NOT bring any illegal drugs or liquor to our meeting.
Any remaining questions you have, once again, please include them all in the additional questions box on the application.
You can request a session with me by following this link.